“A good traveler has no fixed plans and is not intent on arriving.” - Lao Tzu

“A good traveler has no fixed plans and is not intent on arriving.” - Lao Tzu

Friday, September 23, 2011

Squatters Epiphany

Judging by how few and far between my posts are , its become clear. I am not a blogger. That’s not to say I don’t enjoy writing ( I do) Its just when I'm living my regular life I don’t feel compelled to write. Here is the problem I have with that. I want my regular life to be something I want to write about. So after about a year after I set forward on my way to South America (and since returned to Canada), Ive come to a conclusion.

I am a rock climber and more importantly I'm most content in my life being a rock climber.
Maybe its strange to identify as a dirt bag climber , but to me, its paradise. In the past many months I haven't been climbing, I haven't been following the climbing world , not even thinking about climbing, and I have not been content. So, today it changed.
I went bouldering by myself for the first time ever. Amazing how something so dull as traversing at squatters bluff surrounded by garbage could be so rewarding mentally. So can you hear it? That’s the sound of my new leaf turning. A leaf which symbolizes who I am. A climber. Watch out world.

Wednesday, April 6, 2011

Canada to Argentina, yes and YES!

Its been a very long time since I’ve written my last blog post. Just after my last post in Peru, Cati broke her ankle bouldering while were at 4300m and we had to make an emergency trip to Lima via 6 hour cab ride. Upon arrival we were told she needed immediate surgery. She didn’t have travelers insurance which meant changing our tickets to the soonest possible departure to Cordoba (Catis home city.)
Without being too long winded, We made it there, she had her surgery and I met her entire family. We had an amazing Christmas together in the warm warm climate Argentina offers and Cati made a lot of recovery for the 3.5 weeks I was there.
For personal reasons I felt I needed to come back to Canada in the beginning of January which meant saying goodbye (again) to Cati. Both in love and neither of us wanting to say goodbye, We decided to stay together and try to make things work. That was 3 months ago, and I can safely say that this was the hardest thing to date we have put our relationship through. I’ve always told myself, and even told Cati when I met her that I would never want to be in a long distance relationship. I failed to realize that you don’t really get to choose these things because when you love someone, anything goes…
So, today? I’m happy to say that I’m sitting on a cramped seat on an American airlines flight on route to Dallas Fortworth where I will connect onto a Lan Argentina flight scheduled to land me in Buenos Aires At 755am tomorrow morning. After all the shitty feeling of being alone I’m within hours of wrapping my arms around Cati and I’m sooo excited. With 14 hours of travel time, its hard not to reflect on the last 3 months of non stop work, the late night Skype chats, the endless Facebook messages, lonely sleeps, and all the other things I’ve been through to get the this point in time. I now feel that without a doubt all of the above mentioned was worth it. I’m in love, and there is nothing I wouldn’t do to follow my heart. Crazy? Maybe… But it sure is fun...Te amo Cati!